Today, with the notorious freedom of speech and the open sale of condoms, the concept of emancipation and sexual education has become synonymous with promiscuity and promiscuity in the choice of sexual partners. But let’s look at it the other way, shall we?

A few centuries ago, the female orgasm was a kind of myth that was hard to think about. Now we know that it exists and we can enjoy sex just as much as men. Moreover, we need sex for a number of reasons: psychological relaxation, benefits for women’s health, improved self-esteem and confidence in our own sexuality. Well, why not be happy for women?

Along with knowledge about one’s own sexuality, there are sources of information that tell in a popular language how to make intimate life better. But there are still those who cannot talk about a completely natural process without a tremor in their voice.

For example, here are some comments on materials devoted to sexual relations:

Let’s dot the i’s.

We asked leading sexologists what they think about why sex gets so much negative feedback from women. And here’s what they told us.

sexologist, program director of the Secrets Sex Education Center

“If a person begins to violently resent and call for moral and ethical standards when reading a popular science article about sex, most likely he himself is tormented by many complexes associated with unrealized sexuality, the roots of which go back to childhood or experienced trauma.”

sex coach, founder of the Alex May Academy

“Unfortunately, the negative programming of mothers and grandmothers has done its dirty deed. The topic of sex remains strictly taboo for some women, even at the level of conversations. This means that these women have never received any pleasure from sex, let alone orgasms; and all that they understand by sex is to let a man satisfy his need. Alas, this is the reality of many, many women, whose potential, due to fictitious limitations in their own heads, will remain undiscovered. Although sexual relations are the basis of both physical and emotional health of a woman ” .

sexologist, program director of the Secrets Sex Education Center

“Each religion has its own attitude to sex, but, as far as we know, intra-family sexual relations are encouraged by each of them. In any case, there are a large number of confessions on the territory of Russia, and you should not adjust your sex life to the life of a representative of another religion – you did your choice, but don’t let others make it.”

Sex can be different – this is the very truth from which you can’t hide and you can’t run away. And talking about it is a better idea than keeping silent about the complexes and fears associated with religious, moral or psychological aspects.

Another thing is that some people do not accept anal sex, oral sex or masturbation in their lives. For example, I do not imagine myself with a fist in my ass, but I do not deny that someone might like it. Someone dreams of sex with two men, but I can’t imagine where there is so much space in me. I also don’t want to be written to. Well, somehow you don’t want to, you know. But it turns someone on. Sex is a matter of two, not a public good.

When we meet the right man, we don’t want to buy him a sweater, do we? No, we want to corner him and have sex with him. And that’s great.