I get an orgasm only from a shower or a vibrator. My partner’s efforts are clearly not enough, and I’m afraid to show him my toys. What to do?

From such intense stimulation, the nerve endings of the clitoris become coarser. Leave a vibrator in your schedule once, maximum twice a week, and feel with a partner
will intensify. Don’t forget to talk to him about what’s going on. This will help to open a channel of communication in sex, and after a while you will be able to use gadgets together.

My husband is 34 years old. He assures that sex at his age is not the main thing. I’m 32 and just starting to really enjoy intimacy. Do we have different biological rhythms?

If you had different “time zones”, then he would not say that sex has ceased to play a leading role in his life, he would just like sex, for example, in the morning, and you in the evening. In my opinion, in your case, it is most likely that an intimate relationship for a husband
have become, albeit pleasant, but still a routine. To correct the situation, you must try to cause strong emotional outbursts in your partner. Send him one erotic sms a week or immediately after intimacy say short but pleasant compliments. Your actions should be directly related to sex and be regular, but not too frequent.

Recently, a loved one suggested trying anal sex. But it hurts me a lot, even if he enters me gradually and with lubrication. At the same time, I like finger penetration. Why such difference? Do I just have to endure the discomfort?

The main thing is to act gradually and not to rush anywhere. Let the man put a lot of lubricant on his fingers and slowly and gently massage your anus. This is necessary for the two muscle rings of the sphincter to relax and open up. Keep in mind that such a massage will take at least twenty minutes or even half an hour, since the muscles there are quite
strong. After that, you will need to regulate the depth of penis penetration yourself, focusing on sensations. To do this, it is convenient to hold the partner by the hips. And in no case can not endure the pain! Sex should be above all pleasure for both.