The frequency of sex in a single couple can vary greatly, and the longer people are together, the stronger. The rumor that sex disappears after many years of marriage is not always justified! Here are the opinions of real couples about the acceptable amount of sex.

More often or better?  11 women about the acceptable frequency of sex in marriage


  1. “We try to have sex 3-5 times a week, closer to five. Married for eight years, together for more than ten, two children.” Arina, 32 years old.
  2. “We have been married for a year, we have sex every day, except for the first days of my period, when I feel bad. Sometimes twice a day. No children yet, so no one distracts.” Zhanna, 26 years old.
  3. “Everything is changing with us: we can not meet in bed for weeks, we can every day. Together for five years.” Maria, 25 years old.
  4. “We are 35, married for six years, two children, both working. We try to have sex at least twice a week. If less, the relationship goes wrong.” Sarah, 35 years old.
  5. “We have been married for five years, together 11. Three times a week. Now I am pregnant, and it can be either less or more.” Larisa, 30 years old.
  6. “We have been together for almost 15 years, I am expecting a second child. Two or three times a week is a must! I don’t know if this is a lot or a little.” Dina, 40 years old.
  7. “Eight years ago, when we met, we had sex every day. Now, with two children, a dog and sick parents, it works out well if once or twice a month.” Alla, 35 years old.
  8. “Once a week. We have been together for more than ten years. We have days when it is most convenient, and we rely on them.” Elena, 34 years old.
  9. “Married for five years, having sex a couple of times a month. Maybe more, but I don’t want to put pressure on him.” Marina, 30 years old.
  10. “We have been together for 15 years, we have sex once a month. We have a very active child.” Olga, 38 years old.
  11. “Married 11 years, two children. Sex happens once a week, but we hug a lot.” Ulyana, 34 years old.