Of course, with some partners there is elementary incompatibility, but in order to avoid an epic failure for other reasons, you need to remember what you can’t do before sex!
1. Do not go to the toilet
Stop the foreplay and ask your partner to wait a couple of minutes while you run to the toilet? Uh-uh … He will not appreciate this, to put it mildly, and the mood will be spoiled. Therefore, be sure to take care of this and look into the restroom on the way to the bedroom. It does not take a lot of time.
2. Save on lubrication
Yes, after sex you have to wash it off, but if your partner has a big dick or you are having anal sex, lubrication is a must. Choose the right lubricant very carefully, but rather take a few – for different occasions (and tastes).
3. Drink too much
Alcohol helps to relax, but it is important not to overdo it. Otherwise, you will lose sensitivity and get much less pleasure, and getting an orgasm will become an impossible task at all. And no wonder – because much more desirable than sex for you will be a dream.
4. Eat heavy food
Alas, having a hearty dinner before sex almost always means guaranteed to spoil the desired mood and make you sleepy. When you eat a lot of carbohydrates at once, the body throws all its energy into the process of digestion. Yes, sex can be spontaneous, but if you are planning a romantic evening, give your body at least an hour to digest food.
5. Obsess over looks
Of course, you are irresistible, but if you suddenly remember your pimple on your chin or hair on your nipples in the midst of passion, all the efforts of your partner will be in vain. No need to focus on your minor flaws, because if he wants to have sex with you, you turn him on.
6. Forget about protection
Yes, few people like such nasty rubber things as condoms. However, they are necessary both for protection against infections and for contraception. So make sure you have them in advance.