How do men fake an orgasm?
There is a philistine notion that direct evidence of a male orgasm is ejaculation. A common stereotype: the male orgasm is extremely physiological in essence, in contrast to the psychological female orgasm. What a delusion! Any orgasm, both female and male, is the highest point of emotional and physiological experiences, and one is inseparable from the other. Many modern sexologists have come to the conclusion that orgasm is more a function of the brain and less related to the activity of the muscles. The encephalogram of the examined men showed that the first signs of orgasm appear in the brain long before the body begins to show the corresponding symptoms.
Ejaculation is just a reflex at the base of the spine, culminating in the release of semen and confirming the onset of the peak of bodily sensations, but only bodily. What happens in a man’s soul, what emotions he experiences at the moment of ejaculation, and whether he experiences anything at all, only he himself knows, at best.
That is why it is quite easy to separate ejaculation from orgasm, and followers of Taoism and Tantra practice this throughout their lives. Men who have never experienced the pleasure of an orgasm without losing a seed are skeptical about this idea, to put it mildly. But those who experience decades of unprecedented physical and spiritual ecstasy in strength will never agree to return to primitive physiological ejaculatory orgasms. What does the partner get at the end of normal intercourse? Rhythmic body movements, increased heart rate and tachycardia, muscle contractions in the pelvic region, rhythmic contractions of the anal sphincter, rapid breathing, hyperventilation of the lungs and increased blood pressure. What does your loved one experience during an orgasm? Flight of the soul! This is where acting comes in handy sometimes…
There are cases when there is not even visual confirmation of the biological finale of the love act. To understand why sperm may not be released, you need to familiarize yourself with the anatomical structure of a man. At the root of the penis in the urethra there is a seed tubercle, through which pass the ducts that eject the seed. When sperm passes through this pathway, the ducts are stretched and the nerve endings of the seminal tubercle are irritated. It is this irritation that causes particular sexual pleasure. After that, the blood drains from the pelvic organs, and relaxation occurs. If for some reason the sperm was not produced by the body and did not come out, it may seem to a man that he never reached the peak of pleasure.
An ardent lover may be prevented from making his beloved happy with a fountain of seminal fluid by an extreme degree of fatigue, which does not correspond to the image of a tough macho. Sometimes there is a need to “rehabilitate” a limp member for various reasons and adequately complete the fight with an insatiable vagina. Sometimes you want sexual happiness to end as soon as possible. But in general, what difference does it make what reasons give rise to the need to complete a love date for dry, the main thing is that a loved one, with all their desire, cannot lose a single drop of protein!
Why is this happening?
Can a man fake an orgasm? The creators of the American TV show This Morning conducted a survey, as a result of which it turned out that 19% of men in this country easily imitate maximum pleasure, demonstrating characteristic moans, facial expressions and body movements. I think the Russians would be no less frank, and in the matter of simulation they would also give odds to any foreigner.
So how do they do it and, most importantly, why? By and large, the imitation of orgasm in men is a white lie. Some women are very attentive to the emotions that a man experiences during intimacy. And God forbid such a person with “psychic” abilities to suspect that something is wrong with the chosen one – there will be no limit to the flow of questions. In order to protect the fragile male psyche from the onslaught of restless female curiosity and unreasonable suspicions of all mortal sins, it’s better to portray a stereotyped delight and hastily forget yourself with a sweet dream, in which, if you’re lucky, you will dream of something that will cause goosebumps without a single contact. The second reason for “sexual lies” may be the desire of a man to seem more sensual and sexier than he really is, and thereby make an indelible impression on his beloved. For many people, not only men, but also women, it seems that having an orgasm helps to bring partners closer. So you have to be hypocritical in bed. And this vice, in fact, is sometimes not alien to you and me!
Who is to blame and what to do?
First, it’s not worth looking for the culprit if your boyfriend hasn’t reached the top. In such situations, no one is to blame, or both parties are to blame, because sexual relations involve the presence of two people at least.
The second important rule: if you feel that your partner has not broken the finish line, you do not need to fix your attention on this, and even more so do not try to help him run to the finish line. This can lead to even more confusion. The most humane thing is to simply find out at your leisure what gives him special pleasure and what his erotic fantasies are. You can watch a funny movie for adults together and take a closer look at the reactions of your lover, suddenly he will pay special attention to something.
In any case, you should not be worried that the bodily part of your relationship is far from the standard you invented. Relationships most often break down not from a lack of someone else’s orgasms, but from a lack of emotional satisfaction. To insure yourself against such an erotic embarrassment, it is enough to remember only one thing: sex is, first of all, an exchange of energy, and it is impossible to simulate a state of energy fullness. An explosion of sexual energy is generated by a certain state of consciousness. Therefore, when deciding to come into contact with a man, start with the head!