Yes, this does happen in REM sleep. At this moment, blood rushes to the genitals, as if you were excited. Sometimes this leads to an orgasm. This is something like the female counterpart of wet dreams.

For this to happen, it is not even necessary to see an erotic dream. Some women do not even suspect that this happened to them in a dream, while others wake up. It’s definitely better than an alarm clock!

In fact, this technique has nothing to do with either sledgehammers or hammers. In English it is called hummer, which really translates as “sledgehammer”. But this name comes from the word hum – hum, roar.

This technique lies in the fact that, while pleasing your man with your mouth, you make sounds, a vibration is created in your oral cavity and tickles his penis.

They use it not as a main dish, but as a condiment: you can diversify your actions by connecting this very “hummer” for a few seconds between normal licking and sucking.

What sounds to make? You can, of course, sing a song, but you will laugh, and nothing will work. It’s better to just sing a smooth “mmm” while moving your lips up and down along the penis.

By varying the pitch, you evoke different sensations: higher sounds have a higher vibration frequency.

Male nipples may well be an erogenous zone. The tips of the male nipples and the areola around them have many nerve endings, as do the tops of the female breast. Of course, everyone has different preferences, so you can only find out what kind of caress of the nipple with your hand or lips your man will like, only experimentally.

If this zone has not “woke up” with him, it is quite possible to wake it up. Performing those caresses that are obviously pleasant to him, at the same time stimulate the nipple (for example, lightly suck on it). By the way, this is any secondary (that is, developed through regular sexual exercise) concerns the erogenous zone.