And if you are honest with yourself, you will surely remember that at least once you participated in such a criminal act. Some of us are recidivists.

Seven crimes against orgasm, the punishment for which is the lack of pleasure.

So many girls sincerely believe that sex without an orgasm is a waste of time. At first, this setting can work: your lover, for example, is a virtuoso or your hormones are raging. And one day – wow! – and the orgasm does not come in two minutes. And you’re not programmed for three. “Where is he? you think anxiously. – Come on! Come on! Well! Well-u-u… Damn…» Waiting for an orgasm scares away an orgasm.

They say that half a century ago, such behavior was typically masculine. For girls, the process of connecting with a loved one was important. Do you know how romantic it is to be in bed not for “relaxation”, but in order to feel the biblical “and they will be one flesh”?

Moreover, its technical side: and this is how you can, and that, and on a chandelier. Men go crazy with your flexibility, stretching and thorough knowledge of the Kama Sutra. In the meantime, you’ve never had an orgasm in your life. But you know what’s the most annoying thing? Your boyfriend is completely indifferent to whether you bent your knee, standing on a vertical split for five minutes, or not. Most likely, he closed his eyes when he finished. And it is not even excluded that your acrobatic sketches knock him down. It’s nice, of course, when a girl tries so hard … But, to be honest, when taking some exotic asana, you think first of all about yourself (how good, athletic, fit, etc. you are). Your partner may feel left out. Just relax – enjoy.

Typical beginner mistake. Many girls are sure that, once they are below, they should lie with their arms stretched out at their sides. Indeed, what else can you do when such a carcass has piled on top? You can hug, yes. But this will not change the situation essentially. Better try moving your booty up and down as it moves back and forth. First, you will be surprised to find that this is in principle possible. Secondly, he will be delighted that you are also participating in the process. And thirdly, by joint efforts, you will soon find the point from which the most interesting things in sex begin.

Either they gallantly let you go ahead – and you finished enchantingly, and he still has to crawl and crawl to the pinnacle of bliss. Either I just realized that there will be no orgasm today (for you). But your man is still firm – and a sense of duty (gratitude) does not allow you to relax. Having taken a dominant position, you begin to move rhythmically. You move for half an hour. Hour. Your side hurts and your hips are swollen. You look longingly at your watch and promise yourself: “Five more minutes and I’ll get down to hell.” And after five minutes, your man timidly asks: “Maybe we’ll try something else?” I could even ask him before the pain in his side what he actually needs.

The reverse of the previous situation. Changeling. For a long time and with all his might, he tries to bring you to ecstasy … But you know for sure that in such a position and in such a rhythm, bliss is inaccessible to you. You know, but he doesn’t know. He works in the sweat of his brow, knocking down his breath. Do not ask if he is well – he may lie out of delicacy. It’s better to tell honestly that you are somehow not very good.

At the peak of happiness, calling Petya Vasya, of course, is not at all comme il faut. But, if you can’t control yourself that much, then at least you managed to get crazy pleasure. But if you are thinking about something completely different – for example, about a failed promotion, about the intrigues of colleagues, about the dollar exchange rate and about the weather for tomorrow – then … Usually in such cases it is advised to “switch”. It’s easy to advise. Switching is completely impossible. And you try partially: impose current problems on erotic fantasies. Imagine that at the moment you are vilely harassed by your boss. That colleagues sell you to the harem of the Turkish Sultan. And the sultan laid out such mountains of gold for you that the dollar was greatly shaken … Well, you are better versed in your own fantasies.

About how it suits you in general. And about what exactly your closest friends think about your connection, from whom you have no secrets and who, for some reason, have recently averted their eyes when you appear together. And that your colleagues, who are definitely not your girlfriends, don’t like him either. And that his shoulders are narrow, and his chest is hairy, and his bristles are prickly, and his eyes are somehow cloudy. In general, you clearly do not like the man with whom you somehow ended up in bed. And to be honest, there’s no way to fix it…