This game is suitable for foreplay when you want to find out your partner’s attitude to dominance and submission, to what you can do and what not.

Plan an erotic date and prepare papers with the names of different parts of your bodies and actions (from “pinch your toe” to “long kiss on the thigh”). Papers can be drawn blindly or numbered and selected by rolling a die.

This is the first preparatory stage of BDSM. Blindfold him during sex and give free rein to the rest of the senses. Then switch roles.

Let him lie on the bed blindfolded. Use lips, tongue, fur and leather objects to touch different parts of his body. Take your time and try to cause maximum excitement.

This is where ice from the freezer comes in handy! Run an ice cube over his belly and then apply warm massage oil or massage candle wax. It is better not to use ordinary candles – traces may remain.

If you feel up to it, grab a wooden spoon or a soft leather strap. Just don’t get carried away at first!

Recall your fantasies and play a strict teacher and a negligent student, a kind nurse and a disgruntled patient – or any role-playing game that you come up with on the go.

This game can be played in everyday life. The dominant partner sets the rules: what to eat for breakfast, how to dress for work. For failure to comply with a submissive partner, punishment awaits in the evening.

Tie his wrists, put him on the bed and sit on top. Now you can do whatever you want with it! You can also tie the ankles. Just make sure the knots aren’t too tight.

After any game, you should just lie down, cuddle and discuss what you liked and what you didn’t. In hard sex, this is very important, both should be satisfied!