[ad_1]
Not everyone is enthusiastic about the idea of bringing a “planned economy” into this delicate sphere, but if the problem of mismatch of temperaments is acute, then perhaps it’s worth a try.
Of course, it could be that you had a fight, that he is angry with you and that you are in trouble. It may not be. He probably just doesn’t want sex. Some people, whose temperament is hotter than that of a partner, admit that it was not easy for them to learn not to take the refusal of the second half in sex at their own expense. But when they managed to do it, it helped improve the relationship.
If your partner can’t give you what you need, when you need it and in sufficient quantity, take matters into your own hands. Including in the literal sense.
If you want ordinary sex at this moment, and he is only ready to, for example, do cunnilingus – agree.
If one of you feels that you need sex more or less than it happens between you, or you want something different from your partner, then do not be silent. Only frankness can be the beginning of solving the problem and give you harmony in your intimate life.
[ad_2]