1st of January
Carezza involves a special awareness in sex, a feeling of being in the moment, like meditation.
Sex on the kitchen table
Hot and cold games
The temperature difference is a well-known technique in sex, it exacerbates the sensations, opening up new facets of pleasure. You can use sex toys or a standard set: wax and ice. Remember that safety is paramount: paraffin without impurities has the lowest melting point. It will not harm the skin and will not cause an allergic reaction.
Among the benefits of tantric sex are sexual stamina, pain relief, and better sleep.
Legs and feet are extremely sensitive areas of our body. We get so horribly tired during the day, being in heavy winter shoes, that a foot massage will be a real relief for both him and you.
A day when you can not even have sex, just talk about it. We know you’ve been waiting for a sign to tell him about one of your fantasies. Think it’s him. If you don’t know where to start, play one of the erotic games.
Arrange for your loved one a real holiday in the spirit of “Showgirls” or invite him to dance for you. Pick up underwear, high heels and slow music like You Can Leave Your Hat On. If you don’t know where to start, read our article about striptease.
Film, film, film!
Erotic, of course. Snuggle up on the couch and turn on a movie that can turn you both on: 50 Shades of Gray or 9.5 Weeks, it’s up to you.
Let’s make it quick
Even if you’re both fans of long foreplay, quick sex has its charms. If you get really turned on before this, the orgasm will be just explosive.
It is not necessary to be “in the know” to try light bondage. This could be a new step in your relationship and a new level of trust. Tip: firstly, the one who ties must comply with safety precautions. Secondly, he must know what to do with his “bottom”.
13th of January
And it doesn’t matter at all whether or not he notices your new panties, bra, belt or corset, the main thing is that these things please you.
“Darling, I’m without panties!”
It is this phrase that you can whisper in his ear when you go to a restaurant or visit friends. Believe me, whether it’s true or not, it will turn him on in earnest.
Don’t say it while he’s driving.
Please yourself. However, if you do not like loneliness, do not hide in another room, in the bathroom or under the covers: show him how you caress yourself so that he learns to better please you.
Toys for adults
Think adults don’t need toys? But no! Tell me honestly: have you ever dreamed of a threesome? With the help of sex devices, this fantasy is easier to fulfill. Try “double penetration” or if your partner likes strap-on games, don’t deny him the pleasure.
This is not only a game of doctor and patient. Go to the same bar and pretend you don’t know each other. “Get to know” again and spend an unforgettable night – maybe this “acquaintance” will help you look at your partner in a new way.
Hint to him that you would not refuse to have your partner work with his tongue.
Relieves fatigue and resurrects any relationship. By the way, when doing an erotic massage, you can connect any part of the body, including the tongue, nipples or labia.
Have your parents ever told you not to play with your food? Yes? Forget! You can play with food in bed (unless it’s a sandwich that will leave crumbs on the sheets). Whipped cream, sugar syrup, champagne… Anything that comes to your mind! Caution – do not put vegetables or fruits into the vagina.
Write him something that will stick in his memory for a long time. Don’t be banal! Do not write: “Go home and finally have sex with me!” Try, for example, asking him: “Can you guess what color my underwear is?” Or: “I can’t believe I’m texting you while I’m masturbating.”
Very quiet sex
Imagine that you spent the night in your parents’ apartment, where your mother is watching “Poor Nastya” through the wall, and you hear how the neighbor from the top floor went to take a shower. Make it an adventure. Climb under the covers – quietly, quietly, and have sex so that you can only hear each other’s breathing.
Sex in the shower or bath is not the best option for every day (lube is easily washed out), but why not practice it from time to time. If you decide to have sex in the shower, place a mat under your feet to prevent slipping.
Spanking can really turn on both the spanker and the spanked. The main thing is to make sure you choose a stop word and that you both like it.
The 25th of January
Reading aloud. Of course, you will not read Pushkin’s poems. Open any site of erotic prose and read aloud to him, lightly stroking his stomach. Read with expression, slightly lowering your voice and looking first at the text, then at it.
By the way, maybe not poker. On undressing, you can play “fool”, and even dominoes.
Obedient girl or good boy
Another variation of BDSM: give him directions. Start with something light and simple, gradually “untwist” to something more.
Shall we play?
Invite your partner to play “Naked Twister” or “Fantasy Bowl”: you will have a good time and laugh heartily.
During sex, bend over his ear and whisper to him the most depraved, most frank thing that comes to your mind.
Can be touched by hand
Replace sex with penetration with manual caresses: there are so many techniques in the world that will help you get a partner and turn yourself on using only and exclusively hands, that it would be a sin not to try them.
Take a breather before the new marathon – and forward, with fresh forces!