It seems that our society is slowly recovering from the consequences of the sexual revolution and again begins to admire chaste girls who approach the issue of sexual relations responsibly and do without early sexual experience. Male virginity is still not held in high esteem, especially if the young man has already grown out of adolescence.
Usually it is not advertised, because people around immediately have a lot of questions and suspicions. It is believed that young people who have delayed the loss of virginity are too stiff, insecure or have some kind of physical handicap. Basically, these are delusions, but they are so deeply ingrained in our public consciousness that they put a lot of pressure, and the guys themselves also consider themselves inferior.
Loss of male virginity
Due to the specific reactions of the male body, it is quite difficult to determine the moment when the loss of male virginity occurs. Someone claims that this happens during the first masturbation and ejaculation, someone even talks about the first erection.
One thing is clear for sure, that the deprivation of male virginity in the literal sense of the word is only possible with the participation of a partner. But here again the question may arise whether petting or oral caresses are considered, or we are talking only about classic sex. Every man can have his own opinion on this matter.
During the first sexual intercourse, a man will not experience such severe discomfort as an innocent girl. Most likely, the very first time will not be entirely successful due to excitement and tension. It is extremely important to understand that even if the guy did not succeed, this does not mean that it will always be like this, because the technique will be developed with experience. After the first sex, discomfort is possible in the area of the frenulum due to the fact that it will stretch a little. Also, some young people mention other strange sensations that are difficult to localize, but it is possible that they are associated with strangeness and excitement.
Signs of male virginity
If guys prefer to hide their innocence, then what about the girls with whom they decide to lose it? After all, if a lady is more experienced, she will quickly assess the level of preparedness of her partner, but if she has a poor idea of \u200b\u200bsex, then the probability of failure during the first experience is extremely high.
A sign of male virginity may be that the partner avoids intimacy and becomes very nervous when left alone with girl. Or, on the contrary, endless stories about unthinkable sexual victories from too young guys may indicate that he only boasts, trying to calm himself and others with them. During intimacy, the inexperienced with the head will give out the inability to handle a partner and premature ejaculation, possibly even before the onset of sexual intercourse.
If you notice that your partner is very nervous and frankly afraid of the first sexual experience, then you should be extremely patient, understanding and gentle. It is these qualities and your support that will help him boldly step into adulthood and begin to comprehend the art of love.