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How to do it? Let’s sneak up from afar. We make our patient comfortable. Apply some massage oil or milk to the base of the spine (this is the area where the coccyx connects to the sacrum). Now cross your thumbs and slide them from the base along the spine to the point between the shoulder blades. Then start kneading your upper back with your thumbs, causing the trapezius muscles to relax.
* As you probably remember from your school years, trapezius muscles – These are two triangles running from the back of the neck to the shoulders and the point between the shoulder blades. Together they form a trapezoid, hence the name. The tension, the stress that we experience affects these muscles. It is worth relaxing them – and the person will experience relief, headaches caused by tension will pass.
2. Awaken his juices
Gently “beat” the lower back with the ribs of the palms. This stimulates the production of sexual energy and sends nerve impulses to the genitals.
3. Lip massage
Remove the remnants of massage milk or oil from his skin with a napkin, inhale deeply … And draw your lips from the base of the spine to the back of the head, placing a lip on each side of the vertebrae. Exhale slowly when you reach the top point.
4. Use the power of friction
Now follow the same path with the palm of your dominant hand (i.e. right if you are right-handed, left if left-handed). Take your time, move slowly and gradually, from vertebra to vertebra, then up, then down. This time there is no need to lubricate the back – dry friction will create the necessary heat.
5. Things get hot
Continue dry rhythmic strokes with a little more speed, moving to the area between the shoulder blades. He will feel even more relaxed and warm.
6. Ticklish ankles
Sit on the man facing the feet. Take hold of his ankles, apply light pressure with your thumb and forefinger on either side of the tendons, and stretch his legs (but don’t press on the tendons themselves). Why exactly here? Tantric massage experts claim that there are points associated with the prostate and genitals in the ankle area. If he feels a slight tingling in his legs, you are close to this point. (or just served his leg). If everything is done correctly, the sensations should respond in the lower abdomen.
7. Serpentine technique
Now it’s time to undress (if you’re not already naked) and move on to a full body massage. (Perhaps you should put a towel under your partner before this so that the massage products do not ruin the sheet). Lubricate yourself with massage oil/milk and start sliding your chest and belly over his back and buttocks. Then ask him to roll over and continue (but don’t let him enter you just yet).
8. Men’s nipples love affection too.
Your partner’s breasts may be no less receptive to touch than yours (and if not, then the nipples can be “awakened” by regularly caressing them at the same time as any active erogenous zone). Doing a massage with the whole body, stroke his nipples (and if you didn’t have time to slide the skin covered with massage potions over them, you can lick and suck).
Now nothing prevents you from moving from massage to making love.