Any sexual play must be safe, hygienic and consensual. For many, this is already obvious, but it does not hurt to repeat it once again.

Since pleasure is combined with pain in BDSM practices, you should always focus not only on your feelings, but also on the opinion of your partner. For example, spanking is harmless as long as the game doesn’t go too far. Verbal and physical communication is a must! It is also worth choosing a stop word that any of you will say if what is happening ceases to please.

Remember that episode of Friends when Chandler sat handcuffed to a chair all day? You probably won’t want to do it again! If you are using handcuffs, take care of two sets of keys so that you can quickly unfasten your partner if necessary.

BDSM in a state of intoxication, and even without experience – an explosive mixture. There is absolutely no reason to risk your health like that! It is recommended to avoid at least tying and using a belt or whip – you can not calculate the force.

It is not necessary to buy expensive handcuffs with rhinestones. It is quite enough what is at home: a tie, a scarf, a belt. Keep in mind that during the game things can be damaged.