1. Anal shower. Preparation should begin with the soul. Firstly, for reasons of hygiene, and secondly, for psychological comfort. When you know that there will be no unpleasant surprises during sex, it will be easier for you to relax and focus on the pleasant sensations. There are souls of various types and forms. But, if you have not used an anal shower before, you should choose gadgets with a narrow nozzle and a soft pear. The water should be at room temperature – not too cold and not too hot (be sure to test with your hand first), and use a lubricant before use.
2. Lubricants. Ordinary lubricant for anal sex will not work. Special anal lubricants not only moisturize, but also have an analgesic effect to reduce sensitivity and remove possible discomfort. Lubricants are available in the form of creams, gels or sprays, they are water-based, gel-based or fat-based.
If you plan to use sex toys, then pay attention: the instructions for the lubricant should indicate that the product is compatible with products made of artificial materials. If you and your partner use condoms during sex, only a water-based lubricant will work for you.
And if you or your man has an allergy, it’s best to first try a new lubricant on a small area of skin and observe the reaction for 30 minutes.
3. Anal stimulants. In the right store, you will find many anal stimulators of various shapes – from plugs to spirals and even Christmas trees.
What are they needed for? Firstly, in order to prepare the internal muscles for penetration and so that you can get used to the feeling of fullness. Secondly, if you are new to anal sex, then a small stimulator will prevent pain and injury. Some stimulants are able to vibrate or expand. A huge number of nerve endings are concentrated in the anus, which is why anal sex can cause strong excitement. The main thing is to prepare properly.
4. Clitoral stimulants. They are not in vain considered the most indispensable female gadgets, because they affect our main erogenous zone. And if arousal begins to decline during anal sex, a clitoral stimulator can correct the situation in seconds. If you have not bought anything like this before, then you are in for a surprise: there is an incredible number of shapes and variations. Stimulants with ears, tails, eggs, penguins and even lipstick! The main thing you need to know about these gadgets is that there are external and non-contact stimulators.
External stimulants imply direct contact with a sensitive area and provide vibration, and its intensity can usually be adjusted.
Non-contact stimulators are more advanced devices that do not create mechanical vibration, but air vibrations. Experienced users claim that it is these devices that guarantee an almost instantaneous orgasm.