If for some reason penetration doesn’t happen: maybe you don’t have a condom, maybe you’re having your period and you don’t like having sex, maybe you just don’t like it… In general, if penetration doesn’t happen, it doesn’t mean that you can’t have sex while on top. You can sit on top of his thighs, on his arm, or on a toy, whichever you prefer. And your partner can masturbate looking at you beautiful.
Add dynamics to your pair. If you want something kinky, tie his wrists over his head so he can’t touch you without your permission. It’s good if you think more about how to please people and less often about your own pleasure, because this position is only for you.
If you are lucky enough to get a bed with a very strong back, then you have a chance to try great oral sex. Squat down (don’t kneel!) over your partner’s face, clinging to the headboard (very strong headboard) so that you can lean back a little to expose your partner’s clitoris.
Lubricate your partner’s fingers generously with lube and, while riding him, show him how to place your fingers so that they are on either side of the clitoris. With each push you will get an additional portion of the buzz.
Sit on top of him at such an angle that your clitoris is in contact with your partner’s pubic bone. You can put your hands on your chest and his hands can rest on your knees. Try to find the most comfortable position by moving and pushing your knees. By the way, if you like anal sex, you can experiment from this position.
Sit him in a chair (on the weight, as in the picture, you don’t need to do this – unless you are both athletes), throw your knees over the armrests and lean back. Your work is done on this! Your partner can grab you under your knees or hold you by your hips to impale you.
Show your husband who is the mistress of the house! Ask him to sit on the edge of the bed, and then sit on top of him, squeezing your partner’s hips with your hips. Put your hands on his shoulders and maybe if you want warmth and romance, look into his eyes.
We recently wrote hacks for the reverse cowgirl pose, so it would be unfair not to include it in our list. This is a great way to try something new.
And why not, after all? Monday!
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