In sex, there are no universal tips and recommendations. A lot of articles and books have been written about how often to do it, and still it is individual. Here are some stories about how couples of different ages deal with this issue.

Simple math: 11 opinions on how often you should have sex

  1. “Once a week, and we plan it in advance, so we know when the date is. We didn’t do this before, but it turned out to be more convenient,” Maria, 39 years old.
  2. “Normal sex once a week, oral more often. Sometimes it happens that there is no sex for a month for various reasons, but we both know that it will be,” Anna, 26 years old.
  3. “Once or twice a week. We live together for a year, work a lot, more often there is simply no time. I used to come to him on Friday and stay until Monday, we could not get out of bed at all. Now there are many other things. He says that I would like to do it more often, but when I ask, he is always busy” — Zlata, 23 years old.
  4. “Every other day. Every day we could, but we don’t really want to, but this way the freshness of feelings is preserved. Together for almost 10 years,” Oksana, 30 years old.
  5. “Unfortunately for him, I don’t have a very high libido. In addition, we have tight work schedules. He likes in the morning, I love in the evening, so on average once a week or two everything happens. There were months when we didn’t never had sex,” Diana, 23
  6. “I keep statistics on my phone – 6.5 times a month, that is, a little more than once a week. There are weeks when sex is daily, there are times without it. Sex is not very important for a partner, but I love it,” Lydia, 25 years.
  7. “Depends on work, fatigue and stress. From twice a week to once a month,” Tatyana, 25 years old.
  8. “We don’t practice at all, we are asexuals,” Kira, 30 years old.
  9. “We try to do something exciting every day. If not sex, then strong hugs. And it turns out that there is also quite a lot of sex, if you don’t skip days,” Olga, 30 years old.
  10. “Recently, twice a month, but we both got sick and experienced unpleasant events. Usually it happens more often,” Ilona, ​​27 years old.
  11. “Once a week, on vacation every day, and it makes me happy. He doesn’t like sex on critical days, but I love it very much, so we agree. I would like more, but he has a nervous job. We live together for about a year, ”- Alina , 28 years.